RECLAIM YOUR CALM: 5 STEPS TO MANAGE ANXIETY

Daniel Tyack

September 2, 2024

Anxiety isn’t just a mental state; it’s a full-body experience that can leave you feeling overwhelmed and out of control. It often begins with runaway thoughts, those relentless worries about what might go wrong, or the constant pressure of what you feel you "should" be doing. When your mind perceives a potential threat, whether real or imagined, it sends powerful signals throughout your body to prepare for danger. This triggers your body's “fight or flight” response: your heart starts racing, your muscles tighten, and your breathing becomes rapid and shallow. Suddenly, your entire body is on high alert, ready to defend against a perceived threat that may not even exist.

What many people don’t realize is that the brain isn’t just reacting to what’s happening in the body; it’s also interpreting and amplifying those sensations based on its expectations. This creates what we call the “anxiety loop”. A cycle where your mind perceives a subconscious threat, your body responds with physical symptoms, and then your brain interprets these symptoms as confirmation of danger. This loop can become a vicious cycle, reinforcing anxiety and leading to chronic cortisol dysregulation, keeping you in a constant state of emotional and physical tension. Effectively, we gaslight ourselves by buying into the stories of perceived threat. We allow the fear to dictate our realities and create the thing we don’t want.

Recent research, such as findings from the National Institute of Mental Health and a study published in the Journal of Neuroscience, reveals that the anterior insula, a brain region responsible for processing emotions, can exaggerate bodily sensations, making perceived threats feel more significant than they are. This process can contribute to an "anxiety loop" where the brain, in its effort to protect you, misinterprets these amplified signals as real danger, triggering more anxiety. As these subconscious patterns are influenced by past experiences and fears, they can shape our emotional reactions to current situations, keeping us in a chronic state of unease. Understanding how these brain mechanisms work can help us recognize and break this cycle, using methods like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) to retrain the brain's response to perceived threats and create a more balanced emotional state.

A significant study from Washington University sheds light on the Somato-Cognitive Action Network (SCAN), a network in the brain that tightly links thoughts and physical responses. This network explains why your thoughts directly influence how your body feels. Recognizing this connection is a game-changer; it shows that the first step toward healing is awareness.

But understanding that the anxiety loop is a subconscious pattern isn’t about blaming yourself—it’s about empowering yourself with knowledge. It’s realizing that past fears and learned behaviors shape your present, but they don’t have to dictate your future. Remember, every great journey begins with a single step. This awareness allows you to shift from feeling stuck to feeling empowered. No matter how overwhelming anxiety feels, there are tools and strategies you can use to gently change your state, calm your nervous system, and create a more peaceful inner world.

You have the strength within you to reclaim control over your mind and body. It starts with recognizing where you are and being willing to take that next step toward healing. This is your invitation to choose awareness, seek support, and trust that brighter, calmer days are ahead.

RECOGNIZING THE LOOP

Understanding this mind-body connection helps you see anxiety not as something fixed but as a process you can interrupt. By breaking the cycle, you reclaim control over your life. Awareness is the key: recognize the loop, and then choose to break it.

You Have the Power to Break Free from Anxiety Loops

Anxiety may feel like it has a grip on your life, but here’s the truth: you have more power than you think. It might seem all-consuming, but it doesn’t have to define you. You don’t need to stay trapped in runaway thoughts or relentless physical symptoms.

Think of anxiety as a habit your mind and body have developed together. And like any habit, it can be changed with awareness and practice. The power to calm your mind, soothe your body, and find peace is already within you.

Let's talk about five holistic strategies to help you break free from anxiety’s grip. These are practices you can start today—simple, grounding, and crafted to meet you wherever you are. Let’s dive in and reclaim your calm, one step at a time.

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NATURAL REMEDIES FOR ANXIETY RELIEF

5 TECHNIQUES TO MANAGE ANXIETY

1. Ground Your Mind with Powerful Mantras: "I Am in Control of My Thoughts"

Using a grounding mantra is like hitting the reset button on anxious thoughts. When your mind starts to race, repeating a phrase like “I am in control of my thoughts” anchors you in the present. It’s a way to reclaim your mental state and feel more centered and empowered.

Mantras are powerful because they engage the brain's natural ability to focus. According to Psychology Today, repeating positive affirmations like a mantra can activate the brain’s reward system and help create new neural pathways, making you less reactive to stress. A study from Harvard Medical School confirms that meditation practices, including mantra meditation, can lower cortisol levels, the hormone that fuels anxiety.

How to Use It:

  • Find a Comfortable Space: Sit somewhere you feel safe and comfortable.

  • Focus on Your Breath: Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to ground yourself.

  • Repeat Your Mantra: Slowly say, “I am in control of my thoughts,” out loud or silently. Repeat 5-10 times, or until you feel a shift.

  • Visualize Calm: Picture yourself rooted, steady, and calm as you repeat the words.

  • Practice Anywhere: Use this practice in any situation, at work, at home, or in public. With repetition, your brain will begin to associate the mantra with calmness.

2. Calm Your Body with the Physiological Sigh

Purpose:

The physiological sigh is a quick, scientifically supported technique to calm your nervous system. It's perfect for moments when you feel anxiety escalating quickly, whether you’re at work, stuck in traffic, or feeling overwhelmed at home.

Andrew Huberman, a neuroscientist at Stanford University, explains that the physiological sigh helps to balance oxygen and carbon dioxide levels in the blood, lowering heart rate and activating the parasympathetic nervous system (responsible for relaxation). The American Institute of Stress also supports that controlled breathing can significantly reduce cortisol and promote calm.

How to Practice:

  • Two-Part Inhale: Take a deep inhale through your nose, followed by a second shorter inhale to fill your lungs.

  • Slow Exhale: Exhale slowly through your mouth, extending the exhale longer than the inhale.

  • Repeat 3-5 Times: Use this breathing pattern several times, or until you feel your body start to relax.

  • Do It Anytime: Practice this whenever you need a quick reset or a moment of calm.

3. Establish a Daily Meditation Routine

Purpose:

Meditation trains your mind to remain present, helping reduce the frequency and intensity of anxious thoughts. Over time, it builds resilience, making you less reactive to stress triggers.

Studies from Johns Hopkins University show that meditation lowers anxiety symptoms by promoting mindfulness. Research from the NIH indicates that regular meditation reduces the size of the amygdala (the brain's fear center) while strengthening the prefrontal cortex, which governs emotional regulation.

How to Practice:

  • Set Aside Time: Start with 5-10 minutes daily. Find a quiet, comfortable place.

  • Focus on Breathing: Close your eyes and pay attention to your breath.

  • Acknowledge Thoughts: When thoughts arise, notice them without judgment, and gently return focus to your breath. Use the mantra, “I am in control of my thoughts,” if it helps.

  • Increase Gradually: Add a minute each week as you get more comfortable.

4. Shift Your Focus with a Daily Gratitude Practice

Purpose:

Gratitude shifts your focus from what could go wrong to what is going right, fostering a positive mindset that counters anxiety.

Research from the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley shows that gratitude rewires the brain to recognize positive experiences, making you less likely to dwell on negatives. The Journal of Positive Psychology reports that gratitude reduces stress and anxiety.

How to Implement:

  • Start a Gratitude Journal: Write down three things you’re grateful for every morning or evening.

  • Feel Each Gratitude: Take time to reflect on each entry and feel the gratitude in your body.

  • Make It Routine: Do this consistently to train your brain to focus on the positive.

5. Harness Nature’s Power to Soothe Anxiety

Purpose:

Spending time in nature is a simple yet powerful way to calm anxiety. Natural settings help reduce stress hormones and promote well-being.

A study from the University of Exeter found that spending at least two hours a week in nature improves psychological health. Harvard Medical School shows that time outdoors lowers blood pressure and cortisol levels, reducing anxiety and promoting calm.

How to Practice:

  • Go Outside Daily: Spend 10-15 minutes outside—walking, sitting, or simply observing nature.

  • Ground Yourself: Walk barefoot on grass or soil to connect with the earth.

  • Practice Mindfulness: Notice the sights, sounds, and smells around you. Let nature be a calming force.

YOUR PERSONALIZED ANXIETY MANAGEMENT PLAN

1. Start with One or Two Practices

Choose one or two practices that resonate most with you. If calming your thoughts appeals, try the grounding mantra or gratitude practice. If your anxiety feels more physical, the physiological sigh or spending time in nature may provide immediate relief. The key is to start small and build up gradually, so you don’t feel overwhelmed by too many changes at once.

  • Set Clear Intentions: Decide when and where you’ll practice. For example, commit to repeating your grounding mantra every morning or practicing the physiological sigh whenever you feel tension building.

  • Track Your Progress: Use a journal or habit tracker to document when you practice, how you feel before and after, and any insights you gain. Tracking progress can help you stay motivated and see the benefits over time.

If you’re unsure where to begin or want personalized guidance, consider scheduling a free exploratory call with me. Together, we can create a plan tailored to your unique needs. Schedule your call here.

2. Gradually Build Up Over Time

Once you feel comfortable with one or two practices, gradually add more. Anxiety can feel overwhelming if you try to tackle it all at once, so give yourself permission to take small steps.

  • Integrate Practices Naturally: Pair new practices with existing habits. For instance, you might add a few minutes of meditation after brushing your teeth or practice gratitude before bedtime. This approach makes the practices feel less like chores and more like enhancements to your daily routine.

  • Adjust As Needed: Be flexible. If a practice isn’t resonating or is hard to maintain, it’s okay to modify or switch it up. Your goal is to find a routine that genuinely supports your journey to calm.

For those interested in deeper support, my Emotional Alchemy sessions provide customized tools to help you navigate anxiety and other emotional challenges. Learn more about these sessions here.

3. Create a Supportive Environment

Your surroundings play a significant role in managing anxiety. A supportive environment can make all the difference in maintaining calm and mindfulness.

  • Designate a Calm Space: Set up a quiet, comfortable area in your home or workspace where you can meditate, practice your mantra, or simply breathe deeply. Consider adding calming elements like soft lighting, plants, or soothing music.

  • Seek Out Support: Share your goals with trusted friends or loved ones who can offer encouragement and accountability. If you’re open to it, join a community or support group with others working on managing anxiety.

  • Use Technology Wisely: Utilize apps or tools for mindfulness, meditation, and anxiety management. Many offer guided meditations, breathwork exercises, and reminders to practice gratitude or mindfulness throughout the day.

If you’re looking for personalized guidance or community support, I offer one-on-one sessions and group practices that focus on deep emotional healing and nervous system regulation. Check out my offerings on danieltyack.com.

4. Be Kind to Yourself

Managing anxiety is a journey, not a destination. Be gentle with yourself and acknowledge your progress, no matter how small it may seem. Remember, you don't need to “beat” anxiety; rather, you can learn to navigate it with self-compassion and care.

  • Celebrate Small Wins: Every time you successfully use a strategy to calm your mind or body, acknowledge it. Whether it’s a quick pause to breathe deeply or noticing your thoughts without judgment, these are meaningful steps toward reclaiming your peace.

  • Practice Self-Compassion: Everyone experiences anxiety differently, and there’s no right or wrong way to manage it. Give yourself grace for off days and return to your practices when you’re ready.

Need more help developing self-compassion? Consider exploring a guided session to dive deeper into understanding and embracing all parts of yourself. You can schedule an exploratory call to see if it’s right for you here.

5. Reassess and Reflect Regularly

Every few weeks, take some time to reflect on what’s working and what might need adjustment. This reflection will help you fine-tune your plan and ensure it continues to meet your needs.

  • Ask Yourself Key Questions: What practices felt most effective? Were there any that didn’t resonate or seemed challenging to maintain? What changes can you make to your plan to better support your journey?

  • Stay Open to New Strategies: Anxiety management is an evolving process. As you grow and change, so might your needs. Stay open to exploring new techniques, tools, and resources to support your mental and emotional health.

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NATURAL REMEDIES FOR ANXIETY RELIEF

YOUR PATH TO LASTING PEACE

Anxiety can feel like a constant presence in your life, but it's important to remember that it doesn’t have to define you. It’s not a permanent state, just a process that you have the power to influence. By understanding how anxiety begins in the mind and reverberates through the body, you’ve already taken the first step toward reclaiming your calm. This awareness is a gift; it’s an opportunity to choose a different path.

The five holistic strategies we’ve covered, using grounding mantras, practicing the physiological sigh, establishing a meditation routine, cultivating gratitude, and reconnecting with nature, are accessible tools that can help you disrupt the anxiety loop. These practices aren't about radical transformations overnight; they're about small, meaningful changes that build resilience over time. Each time you choose to use one of these tools, you’re choosing to step out of the anxiety loop and into a space of greater peace and self-awareness. Every step, no matter how small, is a victory.

Embrace the Journey of Growth

Know that you don’t have to do this alone. The journey to calm and balance can feel daunting, but it’s also filled with the promise of self-discovery and personal growth. Imagine what it would feel like to wake up each day with a sense of inner peace, to feel anchored in the present moment rather than lost in what-ifs and should-haves. Picture yourself responding to life’s challenges with confidence, grounded in the knowledge that you have the tools to manage whatever comes your way.

You deserve that peace, and it is within reach. By choosing to take even one small step today, you’re moving closer to a life that feels more aligned with your true self, a life where anxiety no longer holds the reins. Remember, it’s about progress, not perfection. Your journey is uniquely yours, and every moment you spend nurturing yourself and practicing these strategies is an investment in your well-being.

Ready for More Support on Your Journey?

If you’re ready to go deeper, to uncover what’s truly holding you back, or if you simply need guidance to feel more supported, I’m here for you. I’ve been where you are, and I understand the courage it takes to reach out for help. My mission is to help you find your way back to yourself—to the calm, centered, and empowered person you truly are. Through personalized one-on-one sessions, group practices, or workshops, we can find the right approach to meet you where you are and help you move forward. Schedule a free exploratory call to see how we can tailor a plan just for you.

Your Journey to Calm Starts Now

Think of anxiety not as an obstacle, but as an invitation, a call to turn inward and reclaim the peace that has always been your birthright. You don’t need to wait for the perfect moment or have everything figured out. Start with one small step today. Remember, each breath, each moment of mindfulness, and each practice of gratitude brings you closer to the life you’re meant to live, a life filled with calm, connection, and purpose.

You’ve already shown incredible courage by seeking these tools and considering new ways to approach your well-being. Your path to calm and balance is unfolding before you, and it’s yours to shape. You are stronger than your anxiety. Together, let’s turn this challenge into an opportunity for profound growth and transformation.

If you're ready to take that next step or simply need someone to walk beside you on this journey, know that I’m here. Reach out, and let’s start this journey together. Discover more about Emotional Alchemy sessions or schedule your free call now. Remember, you’ve got this. Your journey to inner peace and lasting calm begins now.

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